Everything we need, we already possess.
When we externalize our power, by giving ourselves to someone in the hopes they will witness us, validate us, and return us to ourselves,
we are keeping ourselves trapped in the very dynamic that we're trying to remedy. We want to heal this feeling of missing something, but we're looking in the wrong place, and therefore will always be "missing" something.
you find yourself in this situation, the best course of action is to "go home" to yourself. Take a deep breath, sink in to your heart, and feel your connection to Source, to Oneness. The treasure lies within.
it's not safe in there! I don't like myself, which is why I'm looking for someone to ease my pain and to love me.
Point taken. But if you don't like yourself, how can you expect anyone else to like you? If
you don't love yourself, how can anyone love you? How can you love anyone if you don't love yourself first? If you cannot unconditionally accept yourself, you never will anyone else. You must love yourself first.
been lied to about what's real in this world. As long as we allow the lullaby to keep us asleep, we'll never break out of this pattern, this structure that binds us to the belief that we're insufficient.
Once you realize
there's no missing part of you that can be retrieved from anyone else, you'll stop putting all your stock in someone else to fill your void and "save" you. Truthfully, putting this onus on someone else is energetic abuse. What goes out comes back,
so it's best to be your own gatekeeper and be mindful of the tragic, fatalistic need we project onto others.
No one can give us anything. Other than a learning experience. But our healing, our retrieving of our missing
pieces, can only come from within.
It is safe for you to "go home" to yourself.