Oct. 1, 2022
Sep. 6, 2022

I've noticed a theme in my spiritual coaching sessions as of late, as many of you have sought guidance in this area...

As you awaken and your soul evolves, you may begin to feel constricted and restrained by your current dynamics and relationships.  You might feel like an outcast, like what you're saying isn't being received, understood, or registered by your friends.  You may doubt yourself and feel it's safer to not make waves by "being weird", and simply relegate yourself to some acceptable version of you that others can be okay with... despite KNOWING you have more inside to offer the world... 

Often, out of safety and familiarity, we choose what's known and expected even if we feel our wings being clipped.  Our hearts want to soar, but our current reality disallows flight, keeping us caged in a familiar cocoon.
If you have a calling in your heart, if you KNOW you were created for more than what you're experiencing, why hide yourself to protect people who don't truly understand or accept you?  
It is a scary prospect on the spiritual path, that when your thinking evolves people in your world will no longer accept you.  They will either try to change you or discount or mock your new revelations.  If this is the case, you have a beautiful choice:  Do I play small & hide?  Or do I have the Godfidence to let my Light out regardless of what others may think of me?  And if I lose friends along the way, perhaps I could be of greater service to them as an example of a new way of being.
We are the company we keep.  And if those around us cannot see, understand, appreciate, support, or elevate us on our life's mission, then they are a distraction.  We get to choose if that relationship is worth dimming our Light.  When we release old dynamics that no longer serve us, it makes room in our life for those that do.
Remember, everything is a choice.  And you get to choose your trajectory for your life.  Everything is possible for you.  There is NOTHING in this world you cannot do.  You are more - and capable of more - than you realize.  Though you may feel stifled, you are magnificence incarnate and have the power to do anything in this world.
So ask yourself... Do you want to soar with your heartsong, allowing your most delicious energy and authenticity to shine through?  Or choose the safe route - staying limited and locked away in an outdated previous version of yourself?  
How wonderful you are in a place to see the paths before you with clarity, knowing you are the Master of your Domain & Destiny, and you GET to author the next chapter of your life's story!  
So write yourself a beautiful life, love!  There will never be another "you" that incarnates on this earth - ever.  And your magnificence is too unique & important to stay in the shadows! ❤️
Aug. 21, 2022
Aug. 1, 2022
Aug. 1, 2022

How I choose to see this will determine my degree of pain. 

Life is full of peaks and valleys.  When we find ourselves in a valley, the sun no longer lights our way, and darkness descends upon us.  Perhaps something awful just transpired in your life, a crumbling of what you thought you knew, and it left you decimated.
At this low, low point lies a treasure...  Witnessing the implosion before you, you see 2 or more paths leading out.  You are the observer of your situation and know in your bones the way you choose to perceive the events that occurred will have a direct correlation to the degree of pain you experience.  
Welcome to your point of strength.
From the peak of this mountaintop, it becomes crystal clear:  How I choose to see this will determine my degree of pain.
If I choose to see myself as a victim of circumstance, then I am disempowered.  If I choose to see something as "happening to" me, then I feel helpless.  I must ask myself:  Do I like this feeling?  
Maybe I'm not a victim here.  Maybe life isn't "happening to" me.  Maybe everything that just transpired happened FOR me, only I can't see how that's possible yet.  But when I trust God/Spirit/Creator within me, knowing I'm not alone on this journey, I know things are unfolding for my benefit, and even in this valley, I am not forsaken.
When you realize you have the power to perceive things in a different way, it takes the sting away.  It doesn't feel as sharp or heavy.  You choose to see yourself as someone taking their power back from all people, time, space, and places.  
And then you realize no one has the power or authority to hurt you.  As your own gatekeeper, you GET to choose how you perceive events and you GET to choose your response.  You have successfully taken your power back.  Like a lightning strike, you realize the power was with you all along.  
And with that, you take a deep breath.  You just alchemized a situation from pain to empowerment.  How you CHOOSE to see this will determine your degree of pain, and you are choosing to see this as a necessary experience on your path for your ultimate benefit in becoming who you came here to be.